A Feminist Wife: Quick Hit: How to manage a feminist wife?
This page actually exists. And people actually answered the question. I hope upon hope that it’s satire, but because I know people, I’m fairly certain it’s not.
This page actually exists. And people actually answered the question. I hope upon hope that it’s satire, but because I know people, I’m fairly certain it’s not.
You don’t manage her but you can manage to stay married to her making sure you both maintain your freedom and independence and don’t become too emotionally, mentally, or financially dependent on the other.
Keep your finances separate but cooperate on joint expenses so that everything is as equal as possible. If you owned property or investments prior to marriage, keep those out of the marriage. It muddies the waters and erodes equality if one had more than the other.
Encourage her to keep her married name if she wants to, and continue working if children come along so that both participate equally in funding a shared home and caring for children
Encourage her to excel in her career as much as possible and you do the same. You each should find fulfillment in things independently not just together so that marriage doesn’t define you. Don’t coddle her and treat her “like a girl/lady”, which often is in a protective manner that she doesn’t treat you in. Rather, treat her like an independent, strong, just as capable of: cutting the grass, fixing the toilet, killing spiders, patching the roof, or anything else – person as you are, if not more capable.
That’s how you manage to stay married to a feminist wife.