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So… I Got Spammed Again…

… or maybe I just never actually fixed the problem in the first place. I was working with my host to fix the problem with these spam links, and they said it would be fixed if I removed the Global… Read more ›

March 20, 2011
Ashley
Writing
sad day, spam, spam links, spammed

Running on To-Do Lists, Compliments, and Love

I’ve posted some posts here, but, let’s face it, I haven’t really blogged on here in almost a month. Many of you have asked what I’ve been up to, and have told me that you miss my blogging and feel… Read more ›

March 9, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Education, Marriage & Family, Writing
busy, Education, feminist wife, High school, life, love, marriage, teaching, wife

Avon Walk for Breast Cancer: Seven in ’11!

Did you know that every three minutes, another woman in the United States is diagnosed with breast cancer? On June 4-5, I’ll spend the weekend walking, along with thousands of other people, in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer. I… Read more ›

March 2, 2011
Ashley
Activism
avon walk

Spammed

So.  Small Strokes was spammed.  There are links to purchase drugs showing up in almost a years’ worth of posts.  And I didn’t put them there. I contacted my host company, and they discovered that the problem was with the… Read more ›

February 21, 2011
Ashley
Writing
hack, hacked, life, spam, spam links

Ask a Feminist: Guest Speaking on Feminism in a High School Classroom

Apparently, I am the resident expert in feminism in my school.  This doesn’t necessarily surprise me, though I do think many of the young teachers here fall somewhere on the feminist spectrum.  However, as the one who A) wrote her master’s… Read more ›

February 16, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Education
Activism, blogs, Gender, teaching, teaching feminism

Punishing Teens Who Are “Gender Nonconforming”

According to a recent article from the Ms. Magazine Blog, parents, teachers, police, and other adults in charge of discipline are more likely to punish the victims of bullying rather than the bullies when it comes to LGBTQ youth. Thus,… Read more ›

February 11, 2011
Ashley
Education
bullying, discrimination, gender identity, lgbt, lgbtw, punishment, Violence and Abuse

Oh, baby!

So.  The conversations about babies have started.  I’m surprised it took this long. I think a lot of it started because we’ve been sort of idly searching for houses but it’s been a difficult process because we’re not really sure… Read more ›

February 8, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
babies, baby, children, doubts, family, feminist wife, kids, marriage, parenting, unsure, wife

More on the Selfish/Selfless Balance

Why I love my Mommy: She will always gently remind me when I border on the too-selfish while NEVER telling me I’m a bad wife if I tend too much to myself and not enough to my husband.  There are… Read more ›

February 7, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
balance, exercise, feminist wife, love, marathon, marathon training, mom, relationships, selfish, selfless, support, wife

Selfish! Selfless! Is there an inbetween?

Tim signed up for the Chicago Marathon this week.  Guess when it is?  October 9.  Does that date ring a bell?  (Hint: white dress, big ceremony, happiest day of my life…) Historically, this has always been a big weekend for… Read more ›

February 6, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
exercise, feminist wife, marathon, marathon training, relationships, selfish, selfless, wife

Assignments Do Not Exist in a Vacuum

I have spent some time recently working in collaboration with several people who are not teachers to develop activities, projects, assignments, and unit plans for my classes.  These experiences are both essential to good curriculum planning and so frustrating that… Read more ›

February 1, 2011
Ashley
Education
assignments, collaboration, Curriculum, discussion, non-teachers, planning

Re-Thinking Body Image

I need to start re-thinking my body image, and I need to get into a healthier headspace regarding food and weight. Allow me to explain. I’m a stress-eater. When I’m stressed, I eat. A lot. I’m not a busy-eater. When… Read more ›

January 31, 2011
Ashley
Activism
Beauty, body image, calories, Health, wedding weightloss

Yea, we fight. You don’t?

Tim and I haven’t had a good, blow-out fight in a really long time.  That’s usually how it goes; we go for a long time in happy, coupl-y bliss and then something starts building up – usually with me –… Read more ›

January 29, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
feminist wife, fighting, fights, marriage, relationships, wife

Wedding Recap, With Pictures – Finally!

I have been promising a wedding recap on this blog complete with pictures since, probably, around October 10.  Every time I sit down to blog, I think: Gosh, I really should post some pictures from the wedding since I’ve been… Read more ›

January 28, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
ceremony, feminist wedding, marriage, pictures, relationships, wedding, weddings

Columbine by Dave Cullen – Full Review

The cameras missed the outside murders and could not follow Eric and Dylan inside.  The fundamental experience for most of America was almost witnessing mass murder.  It was the panic and frustration of not knowing, the mounting terror of horror… Read more ›

January 27, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Education
book, book review, books, columbine, dave cullen, feminist lens, tragedy

Shameless Self Promotion! – NEW BLOG!

Hey feminists! There’s  a new feminist blog on the market. Deconstructing The Fairytale: Feminist Perspectives on Weddings and Marriage! If you love Small Strokes (and you know you do), you’ll love this blog!  Rosie, Jillian, Safa and I will be… Read more ›

January 26, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family, Writing
blog, blogging, blogs, feminist wife, Gender, marriage, new blog, wedding, wife

Columbine by Dave Cullen

I started reading Columbine by Dave Cullen (book #4 in my 30 Before 30 challengeyesterday and made it through a third of the book in a nonstop reading session. At that point, I physically had plenty of time to read more,… Read more ›

January 24, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Education
30 before 30, book, columbine, feminist lens, non fiction

In Sickness and In Health…

It has been two weeks of uninterrupted sickness at the Sam/Rob household.  (Just to confuse you more, I have now shortened our last names for purposes here.)  This is the first time since we moved in together that both of… Read more ›

January 21, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
feminist wife, flu, sick, sickness, wife

I’m looking for guest posts!

It’s been a while since I’ve posted some guest posts on feminism and relationships – mostly because now all of my submissions are coming from people trying to advertise for free on my site. 🙁 I miss your brilliant posts! … Read more ›

January 16, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
call for writers, guest post, marriage, relationships, wedding

#chifems Book Club – New Book!

We have a new book for the Chifems Book Club!  For February 25, we’ll be reading Dirty Girls Social Club by Alisa Valdes-Rodriguez and discussing it in light of a situation with NBC trying to adapt it for the small… Read more ›

January 11, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Books
book club, books, chicago, chifems, reading

In Which I Discuss Politics for the First and Maybe Last Time

I don’t talk much about politics.  Much of this is because, like many Americans I assume, I tend to tune in to discussions about politics that matter to me and tune out the rest.  I also tend to believe that… Read more ›

January 11, 2011
Ashley
Activism
arizona, democrats, gabrielle giffords, politics, Rhetoric, sarah palin, shooting
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