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Review: How To Be a Woman by Caitlin Moran

3 out of 5 stars How To Be a Woman by Caitlin Moran was selected for this month’s A Practical Wedding Book Club. Being a devout follower of A Practical Wedding, a lover of all things feminist, and mostly because… Read more ›

November 17, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Books
A Practical Wedding, book club, british, caitlin moran, Gender, how to be a woman, uk, woman

Review: Follow My Lead: What Dog Training Taught Me about Life, Love, and Happiness

Follow My Lead: What Training My Dogs Taught Me about Life, Love, and Happiness by Carol Quinn – Purchase Follow My Lead from Powell’s Bookstore via this link and I’ll receive some of the money from your purchase. All comission from the sale… Read more ›

November 17, 2011
Ashley
Books
book, book review, books, dog, dogs, follow my lead, seal press

Doing Fewer Things Better

I have been struck with the notion that I’m doing too much. Writing here, writing at GAB, doing admin tasks for GAB, trying to get articles published, trying to make some extra money so we can buy a house and take… Read more ›

October 12, 2011
Ashley
Writing
blogging burnout, break, breaks, good bye, Writing

Becoming Interdependent (Or, Our Anniversary)

“Oh my gosh, a year ago you got married! Can you even believe it’s been a year?” I’ve been hearing this a lot lately, and, honestly, I can absolutely believe it’s been a year. Looking back, time has sort of… Read more ›

October 9, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
anniversary, family and relationships, feminist wife, independence, marriage, relationships, wife

Guest Post: Defying Social Norms II: Little Boxes All The Same

This is a guest post by the awesome Stephanie Farrell. You might remember her from this post previously. And now she’s back, being even more awesome. 🙂 Yay! The grass at our house had gotten way too long, and gone… Read more ›

October 6, 2011
Guest
Activism, Marriage & Family
chores, family, family roles, gender roles, guest post, home, kids, marriage, mowing the lawn, relationships, social norms

Guest Post: Highs and Lows Of This Fall’s Leading Ladies

This is a guest post by Julia Harpin for TV.com New fall shows this season seem to have way more female leads than usual. On its own, that’s awesome, and there are certainly some great female characters on TV right… Read more ›

October 4, 2011
Guest
Activism
broke girls, gender, guest post, new girl, pan am, television, tv, up all night, whitney

Our Anniversary is Coming Up!

I just wrote and scheduled my post about our anniversary. Yay! It’s only a week away. 🙂 And, as a nice early anniversary present, our picture is on A Practical Wedding’s anniversary post today! Yay! Happy Friday, everyone.

September 30, 2011
Ashley
Marriage & Family
anniversary, feminist wife, marriage, wedding, wife

Well. This shook me up this morning.

So, I’m driving to school today, and I’m on the highway, in the middle of three lanes. Some idiot next to me on the right is behind a truck, and he wants to get over, so he starts to inch… Read more ›

September 28, 2011
Ashley
Activism
dangerous driving, driving, street harassment

“Husband” and “Wife”: Symbols of Archaic Times?

I came across an interesting post at A Practical Wedding the other day about whether or not a woman should call her husband “husband”: It feels archaic. It feels symbolic of a role he doesn’t play and like a counterpart… Read more ›

September 27, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
feminist wife, husband, marriage, names, relationships, terms of endearment, wife, wives

Wangari Maathai, First African Woman to Win Nobel Peace Prize, Dies

Today, I’m over at Gender Across Borders talking about Wangari Maathai, the first African Woman to Win the Nobel Peace Prize. In the course of history, there comes a time when humanity is called to shift to a new level… Read more ›

September 27, 2011
Ashley
Activism
Africa, gender across borders, Green Belt Movement, Kenya, Nobel Peace Prize, Wangari Maathai

Why, hello there.

Yea, so I haven’t been posting here so much this week. Why? Well, honestly, I haven’t really felt like it? I’m trying to compose an anniversary post about Tim and my anniversary – since that is what this whole blog… Read more ›

September 25, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family, Writing
anniversary, blog, break, breaks, Writing

Quick Hit: Gen X Women Succeed at Work, Have Fewer Kids

Thanks to my pal, Veronica, I saw this article about how women who are now between the ages of 33 and 46 (Generation X) are working harder and having fewer children. In an interview about the study with Sylvia Ann… Read more ›

September 19, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
childfree, childless, children, gen x, generation x, work, work-life balance

Clothing Cleanse

I have a problem with holding on to old clothing. I’m not sure why this is the case. Maybe it’s because I remember special occasions on which I wore these clothes, or maybe it’s because I bought them on vacations,… Read more ›

September 18, 2011
Ashley
Activism
Beauty, body image, cleaning, cleaning house, cleanse, closet, clothes, Health, shopping

Positive Images of Independent, Married Women in Pop Culture

I set out to write a post a few days back about positive images of independent, married women in pop culture, and I ran into a problem. I couldn’t think of any. The closest I could come was Mad About You,… Read more ›

September 15, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
according to jim, everybody loves raymond, feminist wife, friday night lights, marriage, movies, pop culture, relationships, sitcom, television, wife

Is Working on a Kinder Marriage Woman’s Work?

Commenter kb left an interesting comment on my post, Working on a Kinder Marriage a few days ago, and I wanted to address it in a post rather than a comment reply because I think it is such an interesting… Read more ›

September 14, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
feminist wife, fighting, fights, marriage, relationships, wife

Many Viewpoints on Single-Sex Classrooms

I’m over at Gender Across Borders today, talking about US and global viewpoints of single-sex classrooms: Picture this: A 120-pound, 5’5″, white, 23-year-old teacher stands in front of a classroom of 30 juniors in high school who are mostly Black… Read more ›

September 13, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Education
canada, Education, ghana, single-sex classroom, single-sex education, student, teacher, teaching feminism, uk, United States

A Year of Anniversaries

They say that the worst thing after a big life event, whether positive or negative, is the year that follows. It’s a year of anniversaries, because you remember how different life was a year ago before the big event. I… Read more ›

September 10, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
9/11, anniversary, fahrenheit 451, feminist wife, marriage, september 11, september 11 attacks, wedding, wife

Review: The Taste of Salt

The Taste of Salt by Martha Southgate My rating: 5 of 5 stars My friend, Amanda, gave me an advance copy of The Tast of Salt a little while back, and I picked it up shortly thereafter because the cover… Read more ›

September 9, 2011
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
book, book review, books, feminist lens, marriage, martha southgate, relationships, the taste of salt

Having a Kinder Marriage is a Lot of WORK!

So. I was all ready to start working on a kinder marriage the other day. And the first time I was tested, I was a major fail. Tim’s training for the marathon, right? So he runs after school three days… Read more ›

September 7, 2011
Ashley
Marriage & Family
dog, feminist wife, fighting, fights, marriage, relationships, running, walking, wife, yelling

An Elite Education

Apparently, an elite education has its disadvantages. Yet it is precisely that opportunity that an elite education takes away. How can I be a schoolteacher—wouldn’t that be a waste of my expensive education? Wouldn’t I be squandering the opportunities my… Read more ›

September 6, 2011
Ashley
Education
Education, elite education, expensive education, High school, private school, privilege, teacher
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