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It’s Blog Carnival Day!!!

It’s blog carnival day!! The best day of the month by far. This month’s carnival is about Women and Film, and our host, Carrie, did a fantastic job putting it together. So what are you waiting for? Go check it… Read more ›

July 25, 2012
Ashley
Activism
blog carnival, feminist odyssey, feminist odyssey blog carnival, women and film

30 Before 30: Revisited

No, it’s not my birthday. No, I haven’t recently turned 30. But… In light of a lot of recent realizations I’ve made about what it means to be successful – and what it means to enter a new decade in your… Read more ›

July 24, 2012
Ashley
Marriage & Family
30 before 30, dreams, goals, life list

It’s My Life, I Guess

This post was written as a submission to The Last Name Project, a joint series by from two to one and The Feminist Mystique that explores what people do with their names when they get married, or what they are… Read more ›

July 23, 2012
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
last name, last name project, marriage, name change, relationships

Guest Post: How Anderson Cooper Changed My Outlook on Outing

This is a cross post from Carrie at Don’t Be Afraid to Open Your Eyes, reprinted here with permission. And, don’t forget, she’s hosting our July Feminist Odyssey Blog Carnival on Wednesday, July 25! Be sure to check that out,… Read more ›

July 22, 2012
Guest
Activism
anderson cooper, coming out, guest post, lgbtq, outing

Guest Post: Why I Submit to My Husband

This is a cross-post from Danielle at from two to one. Danielle is a twenty-something newlywed who writes about the intersection of marriage, faith, and feminism at from two to one. Connect with her via Facebook, Twitter, and her blog. Not long ago, Relevant posted a… Read more ›

July 21, 2012
Guest
Activism, Marriage & Family
christianity, compromise, guest post, marriage, relationships, religion, submit

Guest Post: Tall, Dark, and Handsome

This is a cross-post from Danielle at The Collegiate Feminist, reprinted here with permission. Confession: I have a mental checklist for my perfect guy. Tall, dark, and handsome… smart, a little nerdy, worldly, and artsy (piano skills for serenading me… Read more ›

July 20, 2012
Guest
Activism, Marriage & Family
feminism, guest post, love, relationships

Guest Post: Rape “Jokes” & Daniel Tosh

This is a cross-post from The Mamafesto, reprinted here with permission and edited from the original for language and length. Trigger Warning: Multiple mentions of rape, rape culture, and sexual assault throughout this post.  If you’ve somehow been unplugged for the… Read more ›

July 19, 2012
Guest
Activism
comedians, daniel tosh, guest post, rape culture, rape jokes

Everyone Needs a Vacation

So I’m taking one. That’s right. In perhaps the best stroke of awesome timing yet, we’re leaving today for Boston. Our train leaves from Union Station at 9:30 tonight, and by 9:30 PM on Thursday, we’ll be in Boston. That’s… Read more ›

July 18, 2012
Ashley
Marriage & Family
boston, vacation

Why You Will Not See a Book From Me This Year

Many of you know – and even if you don’t know, you probably won’t be surprised to learn – that I have been working on a book for the past year. It was an anthology of essays about how modern… Read more ›

July 17, 2012
Ashley
Marriage & Family, Writing
anthology, book, books, marriage, publishing, relationships, Writing

A Fine Line Between Enough and Too Much

I am the type of person who always needs something to do. Ever since I was little, I’ve always needed some kind of project to work on. It’s probably why, even now, I write and keep up this blog and… Read more ›

July 16, 2012
Ashley
Writing
boredom, busy, stress, Writing

I’m Featured!: The OpEd Project Byline Blog

I have had the great honor of being featured on The OpEd Project Byline Blog very recently. They said really great things about me, too! Check it out. You, too, could have such a great honor. If you’re in the… Read more ›

July 13, 2012
Ashley
Activism, Writing
featured blogger, featured writer, oped project, Writing

Quick Hit: Rory Gilmore’s Bookshelf

If you are even remotely close to my age (i.e. pushing 30), you probably know a little bit about the Gilmore Girls. If you know even a little about the Gilmore Girls, you know that Rory – my teenage idol… Read more ›

July 11, 2012
Ashley
Books
books, feminist lens, gilmore girls, quick hit, rory gilmore

Tim Vs. The Ants

If you have a house, you probably have ants. No, let me correct that: If you live on the ground floor of anything, you probably have ants. And a whole manner of other bugs, for that matter. We have a… Read more ›

July 10, 2012
Ashley
Marriage & Family
ants, bugs, extermination, home, homeownership, house, marriage, pesticides, relationships

Feminist Odyssey Blog Carnival: Submission Troubles, SOLVED!

In case you haven’t noticed yet, the BlogCarnival.com site is down. According to a few twitter friends who have used the site for some time, this happens quite frequently. That’s not good! So we decided to create our own form… Read more ›

July 9, 2012
Ashley
Activism, Writing
blog carnival, blogging, feminism, feminist odyssey, feminist odyssey blog carnival, women and film

It’s not that we can’t have it all. It’s that we shouldn’t.

I have to officially weigh in on the “have it all” debate. I’ve been thinking about it a lot – and I’ve been reading most of the articles in response to Anne-Marie Slaughter’s article that have come across my dash.… Read more ›

July 9, 2012
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
anne-marie slaughter, career, children, family, having it all, kids, marriage, relationships, work

I Need My Husband’s Permission to Pay Bills

I can’t even make this stuff up. OK, here’s the story, and it all starts with the fact that I finally have a grown-up driver’s license. For those of you who don’t know, a grown-up driver’s license is two-fold. First, it’s… Read more ›

July 6, 2012
Ashley
Activism, Marriage & Family
marriage, relationships, Sexism, utility bills

Monthly Review: June 2012

  I don’t know if you all know this, but I’ve been doing quite a bit of writing elsewhere. Sometimes, I write things that might interest you, so I’ve decided to start doing a monthly round-up of my writing elsewhere,… Read more ›

July 6, 2012
Ashley
Activism, Education, Marriage & Family, Writing
blogging, monthly review, Writing

Submit to the Feminist Odyssey Blog Carnival: Second Edition

The official call for posts for the Feminist Odyssey Blog Carnival: Second Edition is up over at Don’t Be Afraid to Open Your Eyes! This month’s theme is Women and Film, and the carnival will go up on July 25.… Read more ›

July 3, 2012
Ashley
Activism, Writing
blog carnival, blogging, feminism, feminist odyssey, feminist odyssey blog carnival, women and film

Happy 4th of July!

Happy Fourth of July, everyone! If you’re in Chicago, don’t stay outside for too long because it’s going to be a hot one. And if you’re anywhere, play it safe with those fireworks! Regular blogging will resume on Thursday. Or… Read more ›

July 3, 2012
Ashley
Writing
4th of july, america, break, holiday

The OpEd Project Comes Back to Chicago

You guys. The OpEd Project is coming back to Chicago with another awesome core seminar on July 28. Some of you may remember that I attended the core seminar last October, and it was one of the best experiences I’ve ever… Read more ›

June 29, 2012
Ashley
Activism
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